TW: This article discusses mental health, including eating disorders, which some readers may find distressing.
In recent months, a powerful shift has been taking place in women’s football, with more players speaking openly about their mental health. These honest conversations are driving meaningful change.
In January, Chloe Kelly shared a candid statement on social media, revealing her unhappiness at Manchester City.
“Ultimately, I just want to be happy again,” she wrote.
A simple yet powerful message that resonated with many.
After playing a huge role in Arsenal’s Champions League win, Kelly revealed in an interview that before her loan signing with Arsenal, she was ready to take a break from football. After signing with her new club, Kelly posted on Instagram with the caption: ‘Pursuit of happiness.’ Just three words, yet they carried immense weight – a poignant reminder that, above all, happiness matters most.
Millie Bright also made headlines when she withdrew from Euros selection due to her mental health. She had already missed the May international break, sparking concern, and then made the brave decision to step back entirely. Her openness underscores the importance of prioritising mental wellbeing, even at the highest levels of the sport.
Another player making a significant impact off the pitch is Molly Bartrip, defender for Tottenham Hotspur. Bartrip has always been open about her battles with anorexia and anxiety. Her honesty has created a space for others, especially young people, to feel seen, understood and not alone.
“As someone who’s suffering with an eating disorder myself, having Molly Bartrip open up about her own struggles with an eating disorder has not only given me hope, but also made me feel less alone. Being so honest and open about her experience, makes me realise that football players like her are human too! It’s helped me to see that there is that light at the end of the tunnel, there is hope.
Seeing that she’s going out and living her dreams shows me that I can make it out on the better side of this. Eating disorders can be so lonely and isolating, so to see someone with lived experience speak up and show all sides of it, helps me to believe in myself. Molly Bartrip has made me feel like I am not alone and has given me that little bit of hope. One day I hope to get to the other side of it like she has. Class class player and human being.” – Amber Lovell
When footballers open up about their personal struggles, it helps football fans of all ages, backgrounds and genders feel empowered to do the same. At the end of the day, footballers are human, and their vulnerability helps create a safe space for all.
